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A question better unasked? So who better ;)
« on: November 29, 2011, 06:05:28 PM »
Right I'm curious.. well sort of. Some of us talk of intimacy and being loners. Some of us have noble thoughts about nurturing relationships, and wanting something more. But where do you stand on sex, hmm should've phrased that differently. :huh: Anyway how do you deal with the need. Don't want gory details, but do you dismiss it acknowledge it. Look its a weird question I know, and I'm not a pervert. I just haven't seen anything about the topic before and the majority of us are consenting adults... in age.. maturity's kinda a failing for me but no one's perfect ..

I'll start, and be clean about it. I find I have no interest. I mean I look and admire but it never goes any further period. I'd like a companion or mouth the words, but do I really. Do I want to share the time I have with another? And casual shit is out of the question... I'm not a pleasant looking bloke, that I can live with, but i dont know where I'm heading in life and women.. this is why I'm posting, maybe you all have a way to deal that I don't. BTW I do go out, and I do try, but while sex is awesome  /panic this topic is driving nuts already but I'm committed in making a fool of myself... so press now... :cry:
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Re: A question better unasked? So who better ;)
« Reply #1 on: November 29, 2011, 06:10:28 PM »
Hey! This is simple for me. I don't want a relationship, too much work. I just would rather have casual sex and nothing more. That holds me over til another chance encounter comes. I just like to hurry and get it over with and then move on..  :cheesy:
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Re: A question better unasked? So who better ;)
« Reply #2 on: November 29, 2011, 06:17:36 PM »
Haha that reminds me... I'm about to make a song about that... haha... I want sex.

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Re: A question better unasked? So who better ;)
« Reply #3 on: November 29, 2011, 06:48:58 PM »
I don't really enjoy sex that much to be honest, so I don't seek it, casual encounters are out of the question for me, sex is not worth the trouble. Sometimes I think I want a partner, but it's the companionship I yearn for. Sure, now and then I get the urge, I have my instincts like anyone, but that's what masturbation is for.

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Re: A question better unasked? So who better ;)
« Reply #4 on: November 29, 2011, 06:53:26 PM »
Masturbation. Ewww. i'm turned on! Ha!   :undecided:
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Re: A question better unasked? So who better ;)
« Reply #5 on: November 29, 2011, 07:07:06 PM »
I want sex.
Yikes.

Noether, I feel the same. Sex isn't important when I'm single. Could be my lack of sex drive though.
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Re: A question better unasked? So who better ;)
« Reply #6 on: November 30, 2011, 02:16:26 PM »
I have never had sex, I have never masturbate, I hardly ever think dirty. I am just not a sexual individual, also I'm young, so I'm not worried about it.

I know this is weird, but I get nervous when I take a pregnancy test(I need to take one every time I get an x-ray, which is  about every few months due to my surgery), even though I KNOW i am not pregnant.

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Re: A question better unasked? So who better ;)
« Reply #7 on: November 30, 2011, 05:01:44 PM »
The fantasy is way better than reality.

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Re: A question better unasked? So who better ;)
« Reply #8 on: November 30, 2011, 05:15:55 PM »
I don't really enjoy sex that much to be honest, so I don't seek it, casual encounters are out of the question for me, sex is not worth the trouble. Sometimes I think I want a partner, but it's the companionship I yearn for. Sure, now and then I get the urge, I have my instincts like anyone, but that's what masturbation is for.

Well here's the problem Noether, you just haven't been with the right guy. You know a guy who has high standards, sucessfull, educated and knows how to please a woman. Well, that leaves me out. But I can satisfy a woman if nothing else... :kiss:
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Re: A question better unasked? So who better ;)
« Reply #9 on: November 30, 2011, 08:59:58 PM »
Well here's the problem Noether, you just haven't been with the right guy. You know a guy who has high standards, sucessfull, educated and knows how to please a woman. Well, that leaves me out. But I can satisfy a woman if nothing else... :kiss:
:grin: Don't you have a murder/suicide to plan?
I have never had sex, I have never masturbate, I hardly ever think dirty. I am just not a sexual individual, also I'm young, so I'm not worried about it.

I know this is weird, but I get nervous when I take a pregnancy test(I need to take one every time I get an x-ray, which is  about every few months due to my surgery), even though I KNOW i am not pregnant.
That's interesting, what do the test results signify?  (if you don't mind me asking)
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Re: A question better unasked? So who better ;)
« Reply #10 on: November 30, 2011, 09:07:21 PM »
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But I can satisfy a woman if nothing else...

That is a useful ability to have, there could be a new career path  :cheesy:.

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Re: A question better unasked? So who better ;)
« Reply #11 on: November 30, 2011, 11:05:15 PM »
The fantasy is way better than reality.

Yep...yep

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« Reply #12 on: December 01, 2011, 05:03:19 AM »
I guess that's easy to say when you're having sex on a regular basis.

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Re: A question better unasked? So who better ;)
« Reply #13 on: December 01, 2011, 06:04:10 AM »
I've had sex only a few times and it was great so far, the release of the urge, but once it was done there was a yearning for a relationship with your better half. Chance encounters are great but they lack something on a deeper level.

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Re: A question better unasked? So who better ;)
« Reply #14 on: December 01, 2011, 06:44:26 AM »
I've had sex in a relationship.
I've had sex after knowing a girl for 30 minutes.
The relationship sex was great, it was so passionate, like the stuff you read about in romance novels.
where as with that girl I just met... sure we got along but there was no connection, it was empty.
Since I hardly ever go out, there's no chance of me finding something casual and if I did, I still live with mum and dad and I wouldn't disrespect their house by bringing random girls around.
In my last serious relationship, we were pretty adventurous with each other so I've already "done it all, seen it all".
I know exactly what I'm missing out on and I'm fine with it.
For me sex is just sex.
But if you have it with someone you love and care for, someone that you "know"... it's 10x better.
If I ever find someone again, great!
In the mean time, I can take care of myself :wink:
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